Strictly Speaking – With Mistress Karen

Hi Readers,

Sex is fun, right? So why do so many people keep writing me to ask what my domination and session fees are? That takes the fun out of it for me.

So here’s the answer once and for all: Zippo! Okay, I don’t charge for bondage and kink sessions.  So can we drop the subject now?  No? Okay, then let me elaborate.

Zillions of people charge for type of services I give. That’s cool. I support them and think it is a perfectly honest and effective way to make a living…  so long as there are no substance abuse problems associated with the profession. A sweet friend of mine, Laurie, is a heavy mistress at a well-known dungeon and she brings home a very fat wad of cash each night she works. And guess what, she only works one night a week: Friday. She probably brings home a low six figures every year and only has to report about a third of it. And what does she do the rest of the time? Play with her kids or pamper herself while they are in school. She has the smartest wardrobe imaginable and looks like a freakin’ fashion plate. Her specialty is medieval torture toys.  She can work a rack like nobody’s business. And she’s really sweet. We’re close. I’ve even played as her sub a few times.  By the way, a rack KILLS! Ouch. I was crying before after about 3 minutes.

But Laurie’s life is not for me. She is not naturally kinky and came to the scene after age 30. Me on the other hand, I have been kinky since the womb. I remember all kinds of bondage in grade school. You know, tie billy up to the jungle gym with Cathy’s belt.  But Laurie isn’t that way as much, so for her, it really is a job.  She’s a pro. But when she is off the clock, she is off the clock. For me, there is no clock. I like to shove something in someone’s ass, chain their legs together and piss on their face. Then when I go home, I like to put on leather opera gloves and handcuffs and jerk myself off. I’m just a kinky girl and that’s it.

So for me, charging for sex  would make me feel shitty about myself.  I don’t  judge Laurie or people like her, but it is just not for me. The sex seems a lot more kinky and edgy when it is without pay. It feels really satisfying to have a killer session or bring a slave to supreme ecstasy and then have coffee with them. You could never have coffee with a paying client. I love fetish and darkness. But I like it as a secret. If you look at me on the street, you would think I was a church-going priss.  Well, unless I was at the “Love Fest”.  But my point is that I look totally normal. I think it’s hot that nobody knows that while you are talking to me over a family pot-luck, I may have a slave chained to my toilette with a ball-gag in his/her mouth. And that thought, the secret part, makes me moist. I just don’t think it would be the same if I were paid.

So I say live and let live. Dominas can charge, and I can get myself off. To each their own. One thing though… please don’t write to ask for a session. I have to initiate it or have a history with the slave, otherwise I might as well charge.

Now it’s off to the pool to get healthy good stuff for my body. In this case, it’s 20 laps. Have fun out there and love your sexuality!!  Oh, and it’s Fall, so there are tons of insanely sexy tall boots out there this season. Maybe one of those boot girls has a secret life of domination just like me!